University of Florida management professor Timothy Judge says, "People with high opinions of themselves as teenagers and young adults drew bigger salaries in middle age than their less confident counterparts, and the gap was widest for those from privileged backgrounds."
This means that even if you grew up with affluent parents you're more likely to earn more money if you have high self-esteem than unconfident people (with rich parents). The financial status of your parents gives you a boost up the ladder, but it's your self-confidence that translates to big bucks in the long run.
Professor Judge found that self-esteem makes more impact if your parents have professional occupations or backgrounds. People from affluent families earn $28,000 more per year if they're confident, as compared to those who have wealthy parents but aren't confident. Those from less advantaged families only earn $7,000 more if they have high self-esteem than those who have lower self-confidence. Your background makes a difference for your future, but your self-confidence gives you that extra boost to succeed.
Not all rich people enjoy high self-esteem. It depends on various personality and family factors, one being how the wealth was achieved. For instance, working, planning, failing, and readjusting your goals is more likely to lead to a positive self-concept than inheriting a few hundred million dollars from mom and dad. Struggling for financial wealth or any type of success can lead to a healthy self-concept, unless of course it was obtained through illegal or immoral means. If you feel bad about yourself, money won't increase your self-esteem. Neither will losing weight, sprucing up your appearance, or buying a new red sports car.
One way to build a positive self-concept is to succeed at slightly difficult things and learning to bounce back from failures. Try setting small challenges at which you're likely to taste success, such as making conversation with a stranger at a party or speaking up at a meeting at work. Work up to bigger goals, and go easy on yourself when you stumble.
You dont have to be hard on yourself and too negative. Every human being is truly unique and you are as well, no matter what other people might say or think about you, you should always keep in mind that your opinion is what that matters.
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